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IWSG: The lows and highs

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Hmm, this is has been quite a tough month for many reasons. Mostly because my WIP has been challenging me to the point of wanting to throw my laptop out of the window! There have been days when I've questioned every word I wrote, wondered if I'm just kidding myself thinking I can be a writer, and letting everything negative settle into my head, knocking out the positive.

I know we all have those days/weeks/months when everything is a struggle, so I know I'm not alone. But it definitely FEELS lonely when you're there. And it's not always solely about writing. When other factors creep in - and for me it is the sheer frustration of having plans and not being able to carry them out - everything just feels worse. The dark clouds roll in, and everything just sucks.

(Hold on, I'm getting to the good bits!)

But then some things happened. Firstly, seeing the happiness of Jackie Felger when the signed books I sent her arrived in her mailbox. People messaging me on Wattpad to tell me they enjoyed my chapters so much, they bought my books. A night out with Annalisa Crawford (not to mention the joy of seeing her book glomping its way up the Amazon charts) Coming second in Misha Gericke's Paying Forward awards. Carrie Butler, Tammy Theriault and Elizabeth Seckman's humour on my Facebook page, the Bloghop of Joy I hosted with Clare Dugmore.

These things are what make the rough days easier. And that is everything I love about IWSG. It isn't just once a month. It happens every single day when you have awesome blog friends.

So, keep smiling through the crap days because eventually, everything will come together and it won't seem so bad!
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  1. Annalisa Crawford6 March 2013 at 08:52

    The lows make us appreciate the highs all the more. If it was easy, everyone would be writing and no one would be buying. If it was easy, the sense of accomplishment would be so much more reduced!

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  2. Cassie Mae6 March 2013 at 09:48

    Bloggy buds always help me through the crap!

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  3. Clare6 March 2013 at 10:17

    <3 Writing is a tough, and often time lonely job. But we're all here for you, honey.

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  4. Jennifer Joyce6 March 2013 at 11:14

    The lows are crap but glad you've had some highs too. They make it all worth it.

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  5. Stina6 March 2013 at 13:43

    You're right. It is our friends, especially our writer friends, who help us through the rough days. I don't know what I'd do without mine. :D

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  6. Anonymous6 March 2013 at 14:30

    I like that I am seeing lots of advice for IWGS. Just putnon my smile and ready to take on the day!

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  7. Unknown6 March 2013 at 14:40

    Thanks for the encouragement. Putting on my tall boots and big smile...

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  8. jaybird6 March 2013 at 15:07

    Kyra- I loved participating in you and Clare's Blog Hop of Joy and just knowing all of those good things happened to you this month, makes me happy!! You're success has been a wonderful thing to watch. :)

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  9. VikLit6 March 2013 at 15:31

    You are so right, it is every single day when you have good blogger friends. We all have those down moments and it is each other who pick us right up!

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  10. ilima6 March 2013 at 15:38

    Good for you for finding those little things to celebrate and be happy about. So inspiring!

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  11. Rena6 March 2013 at 16:31

    I love that you have such great things to celebrate. I know that I always feel really down in the dumps when I start to doubt myself. It's so silly sometimes but also so very real. Good luck with your WIP!

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  12. Jennie Bennett6 March 2013 at 16:41

    The blogging community has always been there for me in the rough times too! Keep your chin up, someday those words will pour out of you again :)

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  13. Mina Burrows6 March 2013 at 17:07

    I love that your fans are reaching out to you! That's awesome!!!

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  14. Elizabeth Seckman6 March 2013 at 17:20

    Add the joy you gave Elizabeth for recognizing her insanity makes you smile. :)

    You certainly are a talented lady and I am a bit of a bragger when I tell people you're my friend :)

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  15. Anonymous6 March 2013 at 18:44

    Awesome post! I've been having one of those months, too, but your words are inspiring to me. Writing has ups and downs, as does life, but with great friends, it's alright in the end. :)

    Well wishes for your book!

    Alexandra~

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  16. Kathryn Neff Perry, PhD, MA, LMHC6 March 2013 at 18:54

    You made me think....and laugh! That's great. And you are so right......one day, if you keep at it, it will work out!
    I'm always amazed when I read other writers comments about how long they have been writing. I always thought (years ago) that you wrote a book, and a few months later it was published! Just that simple. Then I read Stephen King's book "On Writing". He replaced a nail with a spike to hold his rejections. I guess he didn't give up either!
    Great post!!!!!
    Hugs

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    1. Kyra Lennon7 March 2013 at 09:07

      Lol, I too fell into the "write a book and it will be published in a few months" category! The things we learn!

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  17. Sheena-kay Graham6 March 2013 at 19:30

    Go through the crappy days to get to the better days. Never give up Kyra!

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  18. M Pax6 March 2013 at 21:40

    You're right. That's the best part about networking with each other... whether on blogs, FB, or Twitter. What'd we do without each other? I've had plenty of those, 'it all sucks' days.

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  19. Elise Fallson6 March 2013 at 21:45

    Love this post. It's great to have awesome blogging buddies, fans, and friends that help us through the cruddy moments. This may have been a tough month for you for certain things, but like you said, you had many positive moments and that will continue to help you move forward and up! (:

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  20. Michelle Wallace6 March 2013 at 21:47

    In BlogLand, the moral support is amazing!
    As the saying goes, a problem shared is a problem halved...

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  21. Nicole6 March 2013 at 22:20

    I get frustrated about the carrying out plans thing too, but your ending advice is a great philosophy to live by. Things will look up, and writers are a wonderful support for each other!

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  22. Jai6 March 2013 at 22:39

    This was a great post.

    We all have tough days, weeks, months. I love how you ended with the 'good bits' a reminder that even on the rough days there are good bits if you look for them.
    Jai Visiting from IWSG

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  23. Nick Wilford6 March 2013 at 22:52

    Those little things can add up to make a big difference. And the support of our friends is invaluable when things feel crap! Just keep at it, take a break if you need but don't give up!

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  24. Alex J. Cavanaugh7 March 2013 at 00:20

    That's right! Remember the good moments.

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  25. Krista McLaughlin7 March 2013 at 00:46

    We can totally make it past the crappy days together! :) I've wanted to throw my laptop too at times, but then I remember I can't afford to buy a new one every time I get frustrated with my editing, lol.

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  26. Laura Clipson7 March 2013 at 12:55

    I have to agree, the blogging community is the best thing about blogging. Everyone knows what it's like, and therefore they try their best to help you out. Glad you got past it :)

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  27. Pauline Wiles7 March 2013 at 17:04

    Great to hear that Wattpad and other online friendships are working for you!

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  28. L. Diane Wolfe7 March 2013 at 17:55

    Years from now, you won't even remember those crap days.

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  29. Anonymous16 April 2013 at 04:46

    Oh yeah, for a series I'd definitely have to have it written down somewhere - I'd be sure to forget by the time I got to the next book! Carrie and I can be weird together because I too think through the details even though most of it doesn't make it into the book.
    Thanks for the post, Kyra, and best of luck with Strength Carrie -- I've been hearing great things about it.
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